Communicate well Before the Wedding Night..Express well Yourself During bed play
It is natural and normal to experience some pain and blood on first night. The key to limit the pain is to spend more time in bedplay, which not only helps both of you get in the mood, but makes you wet.
Slow down a bit and spend more time exploring the body of your partner. Let him do the same for you. It is important to bear in mind that your ultimate goal is not to get into an intercourse, but to get intimate with your husband. The closer you get to each other, the higher the chances of enjoying a better married life.